Summary
In this episode of the MomQ podcast, host Candace Nassar welcomes Sandra Stanley and her daughter Allie Stanley Cooney to discuss their book Meet Me in the Middle. During this conversation, all three women explore the importance of mother-daughter relationships, faith-based discussions, and navigating the challenges of adolescence. In addition, they emphasize the significance of identity in Christ, the dangers of comparison, and the necessity of building healthy relationships.
“If they can pin their identity on the fact that Jesus went to the cross for them and loved them so much that he died for them, that’s a game changer and that’s the foundation we wanted to start with. So, we start with our little theology-kind of intro and then we go right into “identity” in chapter one. I write eight chapters to the moms, Allie, my daughter, writes a corresponding eight chapters to the girls, and then they come together in the middle. That “meet me in the middle section”, talking about identity, is such a powerful conversation for a mom.”
The episode also addresses common fears faced by both mothers and daughters, while encouraging open communication and vulnerability. Overall, the discussion aims to equip mothers and daughters with the tools to foster strong, God-centered relationships.
Takeaways
The book ‘Meet Me in the Middle’ focuses on mother-daughter conversations.
Identity in Christ is foundational for young girls.
Moms and daughters should celebrate each other’s successes.
Navigating the comparison trap is crucial for mental health.
Healthy relationships are built on mutual respect and love.
Moms can model vulnerability to encourage open dialogue.
Understanding fears can strengthen the mother-daughter bond.
The importance of discussing faith openly in families.
Moms should be students of their children’s lives.
Building a strong relationship with God is essential for families.
titles
Navigating Motherhood with Faith
Empowering Young Girls Through Identity
Chapters
00:00
Introduction to Meet Me in the Middle
04:32
Backgrounds and Inspirations
07:45
The Importance of Faith Conversations
11:25
The Role of Identity in Faith
14:53
Understanding Identity and Its Impact
19:00
Navigating the Comparison Trap
22:39
Building Relationships Through Love