Let’s be real. Motherhood is a wild ride! Some days feel like magic, but most involve a never-ending to-do list, chaos, mess, and spills, all wrapped up with the joy of raising little humans.
Whether you’re navigating sleepless nights, tackling toddler tantrums, or figuring out how to communicate with your teenager (without them rolling their eyes), one thing is certain: motherhood does not come with a manual.
That’s why it’s such a true gift to us as Christ-followers that our Heavenly Father has given us a manual for every aspect of our lives, through His Word and our dependence on Him.
In today’s world, it’s easy to turn to Google, parenting books, or social media for answers. But while advice is helpful, true wisdom comes from God. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us:
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.”
Proverbs 3:5-6
The truth is, no book, expert, or parenting influencer can replace God’s perfect wisdom. He is the One who created our children, knows their hearts, and guides us as we raise them. So, how do we rely on His wisdom in motherhood? Let’s dive in.
. Seek God First (Even Before Coffee!)
Sometimes, the days fly by between carpooling, errands, and chores, and prioritizing quiet time with God can often seem overwhelming. But spending even a few moments with Him can make all the difference. James 1:5 promises:
“If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.”
James 1:5
God’s wisdom is available to us—we just need to ask! Whether it’s during morning prayer, listening to worship music in the car, or reading a Bible verse during carpool lines, making time for God allows His wisdom to shape our motherhood. Even starting every day with a breath prayer: “Lord, give me wisdom today,” refocuses our minds and hearts to seek Him first.
Depend on God When You Feel Unqualified
Do you ever feel like you don’t have what it takes to be a good mom? I have more moments like this than I can count.
Every mom has moments of doubt. Maybe you feel like you don’t have all the answers or worry you’re not doing enough. But here’s the good news: You don’t have to have it all figured out—God does.
The reality is what gets in the way most of experiencing the abundance of God’s wisdom and Grace is who we are. When we rely on our own strength and worldly wisdom, we miss out on involving God in our parenting and giving us the words, the decision-making, and the strength to be the woman and the mom that glorifies Him!
Lean on God When You Face Tough Decisions
From discipline to extracurricular commitments to schooling choices, motherhood is full of big (and small) decisions. It’s easy to second-guess yourself or feel pressured by what others are doing. But God’s wisdom is greater than opinions or trends.
Isaiah 30:21 reminds us:
“Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying, ‘This is the way; walk in it.’”
Isaiah 30:21
When we seek God’s wisdom, He will guide us—not always with a loud voice, but through His Word, the Holy Spirit, and peace in our hearts. Invite God into your decisions. He desires to…
Teach Your Kids to Rely on God’s Wisdom Too
One of the greatest gifts we can give our children is teaching them to seek God’s wisdom for themselves.
Our kids won’t always come to us for answers, but if we point them to God now, they’ll know where to turn when they need guidance later. We can use the small, everyday moments to remind them of the source of true wisdom. Through each heartbreak, frustration, celebration, or sorrow – make a practice of pointing your kids to Christ to ask for comfort, guidance, and direction for each moment of their life.
No matter what season of motherhood you’re in, God’s wisdom is always available. When you feel lost, turn to Him. When you need guidance, seek Him first. You are not alone in this journey—God is with you, and He is faithful.
If you would like to learn more about thriving in the midst of your season of motherhood, listen to this Spotify conversation about Christian joy. Jenny Rodriguez, a pastor’s wife and homeschool mom, shares her insights and experiences with Candace Nassar, founder of MomQ. She emphasizes that joy is not just a feeling of happiness, but an energy and strength that comes from deep within, regardless of circumstances. Jenny highlights the importance of spending time with God, practicing gratitude, and cultivating a spirit of joy in daily tasks. She also discusses the challenges she faced while living in Japan and how she found joy in the midst of loneliness and cultural differences. Jenny encourages moms to prioritize margin in their schedules and celebrate moments as a family.
At MomQ we believe that motherhood is a calling from God. While it is both a privilege and an honor, it is by no means easy! Moms have a lot of questions/concerns and need caring support along their journey. Whether you are a brand new mom or a little more seasoned, MomQ is here to help you fulfill your God given role. Don’t see a group in your area? Contact us today about starting one in your community!
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